Making decisions for you

Many of us feel overwhelmed when thinking about the future. As we get older, we might worry that asking for help will make others think we can't cope or live at home anymore.

The important thing to remember is that there are services and providers like Silverchain who can support you, so you can continue living the way you choose.

Think about what will help you

There are many aged and home care options available, so the best way to get started is to think about what you need to make your everyday life easier and to keep you safe at home. 

Ask yourself:

• What do I need help with?
• What will help me feel more comfortable and confident?
• How much help do I need?
• What can I still do myself?

The answers to these will be different to everyone.

It might be getting some help around the house, having some support to shower safely or someone who can drive you where you need to go. For some people, it might focus around managing chronic and complex health conditions.

Talk to your family, friends or GP

Knowing what you want is key, but letting other people know is also extremely important.

This not only lets them know what your preferences are but means you'll have someone who can speak for you if you are not able to. One way to start these discussions is to explain what you want to be doing in the short and long term and ask to discuss how you can work together to maintain your way of life. For example, "I want to stay in my own home as I grow older. How can we make that happen?"

You could also start by:

• chatting about the activities you currently enjoy doing, before discussing where you feel you need some support
• use examples of other family or friends who have been through a similar experience.

If you don't feel ready to talk to your family or friends, you can start with your GP. Remember, these are your decisions. You don't need to reach any firm decisions during the first, or even second conversation.

Ask about having an assessment 

Aged care assessments are available to determine if you are eligible for government subsidised support, and to see which level of care will best suit your situation. The idea of an assessment may make you feel anxious, but the aim is to understand your goals and make sure you can access the help you need to achieve them. Find out more about getting an assessment.

How we can help

There is usually a waiting period to be accessed for government funded aged care. Remember to ask us about how to access government funded programs such as the Commonwealth Home Support Programme (CHSP) or a Home Care Package (HCP).

To find out if aged care is right for you and to learn about current waiting periods, visit the government website My Aged Care or call 1800 200 422. 

Alternatively, you can also pay privately for aged care services that you need. Private services allow you to receive the care you need without waiting for an assessment for government funding.